Can’t Say Enough About “Quiet”

QuietIt’s my believe that we should add a new protected class–introverts– to those already afforded protected under the law. I came to this conclusion after reading Susan Cain’s brilliant work “Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking.”  The book opens with the example of Rosa Parks, a quiet, self-possessed woman who, by one quiet act of defiance touched off a movement which changed society.  Cain brings up several introverted heroes in various walks of life: CEOs, inventors, artists, scientists…to whom we owe much for their enormous contributions to society. But the book is much more than this.  It serves to challenge the “Extrovert Ideal” which has been held up as the personality model for years, undervaluing the introvert and even making introverts feel somehow damaged or afflicted with something they must “work on to get over.” I felt vindicated after reading this book, especially having learned that much of the introvert/extrovert nature is imbedded in one’s biological makeup.  There really isn’t anything wrong with me!  Cain explores the neuro-scientific research on sensitivity and convincingly explains the workings of the brain as it affects personality .  This physiological component and how it manifests in introverts also explains why they suffer when forced to work in groups, why they need down time alone in order to be creative, and how, unlike extroverts, find large social affairs an energy drain as opposed to a boost.  Reading this, I can’t help but think about how most modern workplaces are set up for extroverts–desks crammed together for more “collaboration”–how classrooms force students to engage in group projects more and more, and how the extrovert in a group is often chosen as a leader, regardless of any particular qualifications for the position.  You extroverts out there, don’t be turned off by all of this, however!  Cain is careful to explain how we in society and in our personal lives need a balance, but that balance must now value the contributions and needs of  introverts as well.  Her book, which took over seven years to research and write, is filled with compelling stories, carefully researched data, and passionate statements.  It is an enjoyable read just at face value, but as an introvert, or the spouse or sibling or parent of one, it is a must read! It  will change the way you see the world and others in it.

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7 responses to “Can’t Say Enough About “Quiet”

  1. Suzanne

    Great review for a great book!

  2. Thank you for sharing this! I look forward to reading “Quiet” and perhaps I will lend it to my significant other so he can better understand me. Your insightful review has me hopeful.

    • So glad you found the review helpful…I thought it was a great book, really readable. People have recommended others on the same topic, but doubt they can compare to this writer.

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